ok IMO,
exhaust-TRD
intake-go CAI and get AEM
sparco torino's-very nice if you could afford them
video screen-???
gauges-i don't really like indiglo's, 00celicaruss is selling gauges on here for $50, very nice
SS-TRD or TWM
Altezzas-i have TYC's and i love them, people have complained about fitment but mine fit good
wheels-all about what you want
coilovers-i'd go with springs(eibach or TRD depending on how much drop you want)
Carbon Fiber hood-yes, OEM style
Aluminum mats, go to a metal shop and ask them to cut you a set, shouldn't cost more that $40-50